In contrast to last week’s question–What do you think of censoring books BECAUSE of their intended age? Say, books too “old” for your kids to read?
Well, I have always read ADULT books when I was in my teens. Classics, detective fictions, whodunnits, etc etc. However reading sexually explicit stuff was kind of banned. Not by my parents, but it was self imposed. And I do think there are stuff which are not suitable for children.
A fairly recent example is The Time Traveller's Wife by Audrey Niffenegger. This book was bought by my 15 year old niece. She simply couldn't get into the story. I too felt it was inappropriate for her age. (She gifted the novel to me!!)
I think there are some genres, which are not really understood by the young and they need a bit of growing up before they can understand those fully. However, some grow fast, some take a while. It all depends on our mental age.
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I think the individual child is a big part of it. I saw someone say in their answer that most kids probably won't want to read or get bored of books that are too old for them much like your niece.
I never stopped my son from reading any book. I would discourage him from reading books that I felt would be so difficult for him they would frustrate him, but I always let him make the final decision.
Yes, it's a very individual thing, isn't it?
Here's MY THURSDAY MEMES POST
I agree with your answer.
Here's mine:
http://tributebooksmama.blogspot.com/2011/05/booking-through-thursday_19.html
Lol I love that you had a self imposed ban.
Sally.
http://theelifylop.blogspot.com/2011/05/booking-through-thursday-18.html
I wasn't discouraged from reading any book by my mom, even adult romances as long as I was reading. I get questions like this at my work and the best answer I can give is that the parent read it along with the child or read it ahead of the child.
I wouldn't forbid a kid from reading a book unless is was severely inappropriate (erotica with a little kid for example).
I will give extra details to a kid reading a book if I think they won't like it by explaining what it's about (like when my six year old daughter bought a romance from the children's section) and I'll tell them that a book is very difficult to read if I think it's too hard and encourage them to quit if it gets to hard.
I think my answer is similar to yours in SOME ways. It's interesting to read everyone's answers on this. I think this provoked many more introspective posts than last week's.
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